Pay attention.
Be astonished.
Tell about it.
These three lines are from poet Mary Oliver, from a poem entitled Instructions for Living a Life. (I think I may adopt them as my new mantra.) Huge thanks to Stephanie Hunt, local writer and author of this Charleston Magazine article on Dewees Island, for introducing me to Mary Oliver, and to fellow Coastal Master Naturalist Nan Salas for bringing that particular poem to a meeting.
So I am working on paying attention: to the spring calls of birds recently arrived: purple martins, black-necked stilts, great crested flycatchers, orchard orioles, and painted buntings. Paying attention to the minute details of early wildflowers, of caterpillars eating leaves and butterflies enjoying nectar, to the intricate architecture of a spiderweb.
Paying attention to a retired elementary teacher’s tales of reconstructing rodent skeletons with her lucky students and pausing with her in surprise at the unexpected daylight call of a chuck-wills-widow.
Paying attention to the expertise of guest birders who could explain the differences in similar shorebirds in the shallows; who spotted birds I had never before seen on the island.
Paying attention to the cries of the young bald eagle on the osprey platform, to the startling of a great blue heron, to the vanishing blue tail of a five-lined skink as he slithers under a boardwalk, to the pink bellies of baby dolphins splashing in the inlet.
The astonishment is easy, here on Dewees. I’m astonished by the sliver of sun emerging from clouds after days of rain and wind, by a cluster of baby alligators slipping soundlessly into the water, by the deliberate grace of a fishing egret, by the ability of water and wind to carve the shore. We have so much nature we can see with such little effort, when we just pay attention; and we are so quickly rewarded with that sense of awe that comes with watching some miracle unfold.





Just after I saw you we observed that the hummingbirds are back on the feeder this morning. The male painted buntings are also back fighting each other on their feeder and the female painted buntings have showed up, too. Last night I heard the “tree frogs”…..what can you expect after all this rain! Thanks so much for sharing.
Beautiful post — you truly did capture the essence of the idea in your description of how it has applied to your life in recent weeks on the island! Everyone should do this: Pay attention; Be astonished and tell about it! Maybe more will now that you have told about it!
Another beautiful post. Mary Oliver has been my go to guru for over 40 years. Whenever life got too hectic raising 4 very active children, no time for myself, one of her poems could create instant balance.
Can’t wait to pull those slim volumes from the shelves and reread one of America’s best poets.
Merci beaucoup!